I spent 14 years meaning to write this book. Here’s what finally made me do it (and what it’s actually about).My first “Yes And” book came out in 2012.I always planned to write a follow-up. A deeper one. One with more tactical meat on the bones, not just mindset and inspiration. Something a leader could

The Biggest Obstacle to Change Isn’t Resistance; it’s Apathy. Here’s How to Fix It.

Image credit: iqonceptHere’s something I learned from 20+ years of improv: The scenes that fall flat aren’t usually missing skill. They’re missing commitment.The performers are hedging. Playing not to fail instead of playing to win. Trying to be acceptable rather than authentic.I see the exact same pattern in teams navigating change. And the fix isn’t

Stop Playing Not to Fail: Why Teams Get Stuck During Change

One of the most famous lines in Game of Thrones comes from Littlefinger:“Chaos isn’t a pit. Chaos is a ladder.”I love the show. (Well… most of it. IYKYK…) and think about it often. My social media algorithms like to pop clips up into my feed, and this quote came up recently.And that made me realize

Change Isn’t a Pit. It’s a Ladder.

The worst career decision I ever made looked great on paper.I left a well-paid programming job I genuinely liked. Good benefits, a great boss, solid coworkers including a close friend. The startup I joined instead? It turned out to be a terrible fit in almost every way. Within a year, I knew I had to

I Left a Great Job for a Terrible One. It Was the Best Thing I Ever Did.

Now THAT is an impossible goal!When change overwhelms your team, the instinct is to do less.But what if that’s exactly backwards?When change hits, most of us default to the same response: we shrink. We simplify. We lower expectations and tell ourselves, “Let’s just get through this.”That reaction makes sense (and believe me, I have that

Feeling Overwhelmed by Change? Maybe the Answer Is to Do More, Not Less.

When leaders talk about resistance to change, it’s usually framed as a logic issue.”They don’t understand why this is good.””They’re stuck in their ways.””They’re just being difficult.”But after 30 years of doing improv comedy and working with organizations on change, I can tell you: that’s rarely what’s actually happening.Most reactions to change have very little

Why Your Team Resists Change (Even When They Agree With It)